Body Language

10 Quick Tips for "Owning" Your Presentations

10 Quick Tips for “Owning” Your Presentations

Are you ever tentative about speaking in front of others? Do you fear you will make a mistake or look foolish? Do you ever worry that people will disagree with you? If so, it’s possible that you aren’t completely committed to your own communication. Before you lead another meeting, sales call, presentation or training session, […]

Let's Face it—Your Face is Showing

Let’s Face it—Your Face is Showing

I met my little grandson when he was only two days old. Of course he was absolutely gorgeous and I was instantly smitten. But what struck me most as I held him was his face, specifically how expressive it was. In the course of a few minutes he went from peaceful contentment to wide eyed […]

How to Move From Good to Great Speaking

James was a skilled high potential leader who spoke with great composure and strength. These skills had served him well in his previous roles, but now he was moving into “large group” presentations where he needed to provide direction rather than details, and motivate more than inform.  His goal was to add more appeal, more […]

Ready, Set, Present: How to Prepare for Presentation Success Part Two

Ready, Set, Present: How to Prepare for Presentation Success Part Two

Now that you have prepared your content well and have worked on being calm and focused, you are well on the way to feeling confident, focused, and ready for your important presentation. Here is the rest of the story; what to do in the hours and moments before the big event. 1. Walk to calm […]

Listen Up, 4 Surprising Ways to be a Better Listener

Listen Up, 4 Surprising Ways to be a Better Listener

Mary got nervous every time her manager started a conversation with her. She was worried she would forget some critical piece of information. That anxiety interfered with her ability to focus and remember what was said.  As a result, she tried to write down everything that was said during every conversation. Since we speak much […]

Psst....Your Non-Verbals are Speaking

Psst….Your Non-Verbals are Speaking

John was a great manager, good at his job and easy to get along with. But every now and then, he had days when his patience was thin, and he seemed distracted. His team knew when he was having a bad day, even before interacting with him. How did they know? Chances are, they noticed […]

How to Speak With Confidence in Any Situation

How to Speak With Confidence in Any Situation

It happens. You are asked to fill in for your boss’s big presentation. You are new to a project and have been asked for an update. You are in a meeting when you are called on to speak or share your opinion. These are all situations where you might experience a sudden drop in your […]

Five Ways to Maintain Control During Meetings

Five Ways to Maintain Control During Meetings

Once you have a group talking, and conversations become lively, conflict and lack of control can eat up valuable group time. Here are five guidelines you can use to maintain control without becoming heavy-handed. 1. Set group rules early on. Let the group know everyone should have a turn to speak, and that no one will […]

Five Ways to Balance Warmth and Power When you Speak

Five Ways to Balance Warmth and Power When you Speak

As speakers we always want to come across as confident, knowledgeable, and well…powerful. But as we all know, too much of a good thing can be a problem. I think absolute power in speaking can be very intimidating. If we intimidate, we don’t influence people to do anything except fear us. On the other hand, […]

Five Ways to Become a Great Public Speaker

Five Ways to Become a Great Public Speaker

Maybe you have always dreaded public speaking. Maybe you have convinced yourself you are no good at it, and never will be. Maybe you have resigned yourself to suffering through a series of painful speaking experiences. Let’s stop right there. Because it doesn’t have to be that way. You can get better, maybe much better. […]